You are right, and I fear that this continued appeasement of a very virulent religion with the stated goal of dominating the Earth will actually make it so.
I wouldn't say, "take the Koran and shove it," but I understand the sentiment, and I hope that you could never be forced into apologizing to the Islamic community for it. If Islam could be tolerant of those with different beliefs, I would say, "live and let live." But this is not their credo. I am not bound by their religious laws, a concept that seems poorly understood by a great many Islamists.